Love is a decision – not an emotion

Love is always that weird feeling that we feel inside but in a good way. But love is not entirely based on our emotions, its actually the things we do, show and decide on how to get this love inside. Its more likely a decision because we are to decide whether to stay or go, and to do and show. Its like our heart and minds are working at the same time, but working on a different aspect. Everything in life are choices and that is the same goes to loving someone very deeply.

We are to decide whether to forgive and forget the things they have done that might have hurt us. And this kind of decision would actually result on staying or leaving the relationship. If you don’t love that special someone of your enough, then you are easily to decide in giving up everything. All your actions are based on your choices and your choice came from your decisions. Decision that are made because of what you feel inside.

If you like someone, its your decision whether to court them and show what you really feel. If you love someone, it is in your decision whether to make things work out and stay on that relationship. If you hate someone, its your decision whether to throw something at them or hurt them. In short, its all based on your decision, so to know if a person really loves you. You have to look through their decision in life and that includes your relationship.

Each of us has their own wants and needs. We don’t really know what we need, but we certainly know what we want. If you want something or someone pretty badly, then its your choice whether to make a move or just sit around and wait for things to happen. Love is actually never an emotion, but its a feeling that had made us decide impossible things. Things that we can’t no longer imagine just because of love. Love only shows best in its actions and never the words. So to know if that person really loves you, its not from what you hear but how it shows. It can be very complicated but lives decision will always be complicated at first especially when the things we choose are the wrong ones. We don’t really know what is the right choice, but it certainly shows on what we decide in order to know if we did made the right choice. If we didn’t, then it would be a lesson learned in the future. That decision are always there, decision that were made out of love.


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